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LITTLE THINGS MAKE GREAT MARRIAGES

Just as unique as you are, every marriage is unique, for every successful marriage there are a number of secrets and tips applied and shared by both parties in the union. Most of the times all you need is to learn and apply appropriate marriage tips for the union to thick and be long lasting. Take a look at the short story below from a father to her daughter when she was about to be given out in marriage:- My daughter, tomorrow you will be married, you will no longer bear my name but that of your husband. Don't miss me because today, marriage wise , I am fulfilled, I have lived and met my marriage obligations, it is time for you to start fulfilling yours. From your childhood, I have raised you, imbibing in you all the qualities you need to be a good wife but today there are a few things I want to tell you about living with a man and being married. Would you still remember some years ago when you came to me for your GCE/WAEC exams registration fees . Yes I gave you but unknown to you the money actually came from your mum not me, she gave it to me to give you. The truth was that then I was broke, remember she would have secretly, directly given it to you, but as a good wife she gave it to me, so at all times , support your husband. What you should learn from all of this is that sometimes things will get though, in his mind he has his fears ,he fears you may not value him anymore because he has fallen, that is the time you should get solidly behind and support him. The best way to show you love your husband is to respect and support him particularly at trying times. You may argue with him,you may disagree but at the end of the day, let him know he has your respect. Again do you also remember the day she screamed at me?. What did I do, I was quiet, my daughter, learn to be quiet sometimes when your husband is angry, when one person in marriage is hot, the other should be cool, being hot at the same time in a marriage is the surest route to creating a big problem. Yet again, there was a day your mother caught me lustfully touching the hand of another woman, but I was not yet cheating on her. When she saw us , she didn't fight the lady but quietly left, I was afraid of going back home believing all hell will let lose. But by the time I got home, she had prepared as served me my best food. Guilt overtook me, I started begging her. From that day, i never looked at another woman two times. Who knows , if she had fought or threatened me, the result could have been unpalatable for the marriage and even the children. So learn that sometimes, applying the power of silence achieves and brings more solutions which fight cannot. Forget about all the romantic novels you read, all the films and movies you watched, marriage is meant to be sweet, but never designed to be an eldorado, so don't expect a married life to be that way. Last but not the least my daughter, do you know that there was a time , for so many years things were though and your mother had to do two jobs, getting home late tired. But when we get to bed , she will never refuse me my night food, that is how you were born. Don't form the habit of denying your husband of his night food, be a good wife. If you take to heart and make all of these tips to bear on your marriage, I am sure you will not only be fruitful and successful,in your marriage, you will also one day be fulfilled like I am today. NOTE:- Wahab is a relationship and marriage coach. Please submit your comments in the comment box. Like this page , share the articles to your friends, who knows, you may be saving marriages and relationships.

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  1. Wahab Durosinmi12 January 2019 at 12:31

    A new update, a good piece for everyone in marriage or any kind of relationship

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