It is the wish ,a desire and a goal of every woman to have a long lasting, more ideally lifetime, blissful marriage. Of course, of all the relationships known to man, marriage is the only one designed to last for a lifetime. But then, when it comes to choosing a lifetime partner, frankly speaking, men are by far more discerning, they are more diligent on this matter. Today let me beam some lights on and give you some tips on things men look out for in a woman before she is considered a wife material. We all know too well that by the dictates of our various religions, laws, customs and traditions, man in the marriage union is not only expected to provide for the material needs of the family, he is to a large extent equally expected to similarly lead and guide the entire family emotionally, mentally, psychologically and spiritually. Yes , all of these are expected from man and they are aware of them abinitio. My good friends, you must not lose the sight of the fact that issues that will be arising in marriage once consummated may also require or task any or combination of the mental, physical, emotional or spiritual capacities of the couple and yet again the man is equally expected to lead in all of these, the man is equally aware of this task ahead of time.
Therefore my good friends, particularly the ladies during the period of your courtship, when you are dating, in addition to the basic etiquettes of marriage relationship, your man is closely watching and doing due diligence on you as regards what you have and will be bringing to the marriage union to complement and help him succeed in his business/career, he will be watching and closely doing due diligence on you as regards the real values you possess and will be bringing to the union to complement him emotionally, mentally, psychologically and spiritually to help him build a successful family. He will for instance,want to observe even during courtship, of how much value or solution are you in all of these departments to his parents, his siblings, his friends and other people you come across around him. Yes most definitely, he will be diligently looking for how much of all of these you have in you.
My friends, my fans, followers and ladies in particular, what does all of these tell you. It tells you that to a man, a wife material is not only a woman who does not hook up to a lot of men, not only a woman who is selfless, a woman who can stand in ,in his stead if the need arises, a woman who can be herself, a woman who takes care of herself and looks beautiful, but a woman who possesses all of those fundamental qualities and ready to bring them to the union in other to succeed together. Most essentially, these are the qualities a man looks for in a woman in order to see her as a wife material.
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